Pre-marital sex is on the rise with our Tamil Nadu culture - my personal opinion

As I have been travelling all around Chennai, Madurai, Trichy etc., in comparison with my time of youth, I am surprised to see a lot of pre-marital affairs, relationship and sex in today's youths.

In my time (that is more than 10 years back) in my college days, there would be a very less percentage of folks who might have been involved in any sexual activity among my classmates, before marriage. But, it is has become very common these days in today's youth.

Why is that case? I would say here are some reasons I understand - more money in hand for youths, more freedom of youth, more exposure to entertainment and media - internet, atomic families, culture in-tact is missing, both parents working and no time to take care of their kids, unbalanced youths and seeking for a partner before marriage and at last trying to copy the culture of west!

I would not say it is good or bad, but here is my observation and this is where we are going towards.

Why do men have nipples?

I have been wondering about this question for quite a while and here I found the answer after I google-ed a little bit.

The answer is that as embryos men and women have similar tissues and body parts. If anything the embryo follows a 'female template'. That is why nipples are present in both sexes. It is the effect of the genes, the Y chromosome and the hormone testosterone that brings about the changes and masculinices the embryo. Testosterone promotes the growth of the penis and testicles. Because nipples are there before this process begins the nipples stay! Got it!!

How interesting!!?

Darker businesses of Madurai - Madurai Sex

I have written an article before relating to prostitution in Madurai.

When I was analyzing the keywords for which Madurai was being searched for in internet and what is the top most search about Madurai - I was surprised by a fact that "madurai sex" was one of the important keywords around it.

There are lot of folks searching for it and trying to find about Madurai 'Sex' in internet. There is definitely something fishy about this fact in Madurai, that is why people are searching for and trying to find how they can achieve this in madurai.

Is still Madurai being famous/notorious for prostitution? Are there many agents and functionaries functioning for prostitution in Madurai? Are even people (tourists) looking for sex tourism or massage in Madurai?

This is definitely a darker side of Madurai, given that Madurai is a night city and there is lot of floating population and not to forget it is a tourist destination for even people in India (that is other parts of the country).

I know this busienss feeds lot of families, and it is ok to some extent in a society, but this should not be too much and a flourishing business.

I came to know to this fact, only by the number of people searching for this particular fact in Internet.

Overall - the affected ones are youngsters and even girls are sexually abused, due to their poverty.

I am wishing this business does not flourish and the youngsters go in right path in life, especially the girl folks!

Girl Child Sexual Abuse in Madurai: Madurai High Court

The Madurai Bench of the Madras High Court has called for setting up of a confidential and an independent monitoring system in government and private schools in Tamil Nadu to curb sexual abuse and harassment of girl students.

The complaint cell had received 255 complaints till December 2006 and 427 between January 2007 and March 2008, the judge said.

Sourcing from IndLawNews dot com

Madurai Sex & Madurai Beauty/Madurai Girls/ Madurai Women

Madurai Sex & Madurai Beauty/Madurai Girls/ Madurai Women

Sex is a very pure concept - theoritically and practically!
It is all about perspective. It depends on culture.
If you are a westerner, sleeping around with differnt women is fine, but if you are a easterner, it is not. Whatever, it is - after marriage - you have to have Sex with only one person. That is something both westerner and easterner agree to.

From Madurai perspective, Sex is something, which has to be had and enjoyed with only one person - throughout your life. I agree with it and it is correct.

Since Madurai is a conservative community, even talking about sex might offend someone or elders. Better not talk about it.

There is an advantage to having sex with only one person throughout your life - you prevent lot of STD(Sexually transmitted diseases) like AIDS spreading around and our health is also good.

It is good for health to have sex once in a day with your spouse - in other words it is good for your heart. It reduces the risk of heart failure.

Do you know Madurai has too many sex workers (prostitutes - who trade body/sex for money) than many other districts of tamil nadu? I believe the count is reduced these days. Do you know Madurai has more HIV affected patients in the Government Hospitals
than most of the other districts of tamil nadu? sad, but I think it is true.

Soceity has to grow up further and young adolescents have to get Sex education, and be aware of good and bad. They should be literate enough not to do anything wrong. The youngsters has to be motivated enough to make sure they are walking towards their
goals, instead of doing some wrong things in their youth stage.

Madurai Wisdom: Hard work and Persistency pays off

Madurai Wisdom:

As we have talked about setting goals, we need to work hard and be persistent.
In order for us to achieve the goals, we need to keep doing the stuff needed.

If we are quitting, we are never going to achieve what we want to achieve.
Quitting is a worst thing any achiever would do.

Even if we fail, we will have to keep hitting the wall to have the wall broken. Only exception is - if you find that it is a wrong wall, you need to quit and find some alternate arrangements.

Anyway, you will see joy, if you get the taste of success - out of your persistent hard work.

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