What is today might not be there tomorrow. Good or Bad! - Everything happens for good - Madurai Wisdom

What is today might not be there tomorrow. Good or Bad!

Everything happens for good!!

If you are suffering today, tomorrow it will change.

If you are having tough time today and that will change today for sure.

Whatever you do today is not working out or becoming fruit, then don't worry. Things will change.

Just be patient and do your duty and God is there with you all the time. These are testing times.

Whatever job or project or business you take up and you do it with your own risk and aware about the risk, don't worry. God (Allah, Jesus and Krishna) is with you all the time. Whoever you believe will be there with you.

If you are having difficulty in whatever you do or not having success in any of the things you do, then don't loose confidence, keep fighting and at last things will work out and you will have the fruit easily.

How to impress your wife? Listen to your wife!

Here are some best ways to keep your wife happy and be a "GOOD HUSBAND":) -

1) Shopping: Accompany with your wife for Shopping. This is important because women like their husband to accompany with them for their shopping and also if you want to shop, you ask your wife to come with you for your shopping. She will be glad about it. Even after 3 hours of "shopping" in one shop (say Rajmahal) and she says she did not like any item there and she wants to go to another shop (say Pothys) you will have to gladly accept. That is painful, but you got to do that - so that your wife will be happy for it.

2) Smiling Face: How bad your day might be, and how stressful your day might look for you, but if you keep smiling face and also be little funny and keep your wife smiling too, that will make your life happy.

3) Never talk bad about in-laws: That is said clearly in few words. Let me say that again - Never talk bad about in-laws. She can talk bad about your mom and dad, but you can never talk bad about her mom and dad! That is a rule!!

4) One day help - When you are on a holiday, do all the house-hold work in your home. Like Sunday, you cook and take care of your children, that definitely makes her happy.

5) Recognition - Give her recognition for anything. This is part of management anyway - even for your employees you got to do that. Even if the food which she prepared is not that great, praise that it was/is good. When she dresses up, say that she looks beautiful.

6) Express - Express your love all the time. Say I Love you whenever possible.

7) SEX - Last but not least, Sex is important. Have sex with your wife as much times as possible. Listen to her in the sex and do not just do your part and sleep off. Listen to her!! Do the way she likes!!

Have fun!!

Scale for life - Madurai Wisdom

I always use this scale for life, whenever I have any problem or happiness.

Something to HOPE for;
Somebody to LOVE;
Something to do;

If you are sad, just see in the above list and you will find one or more of it will be missing. If that is the case, just fill it up.

At any point of time, it has worked for me.

In other hand, if we are able to just take both sadness and happiness with an equal and stable mind, then that is the real maturity.

Also, if you are able to give off all the success to GOD - as my Muslim friends say - "Yellaappugazhum iraivanukke". That is the perfect way of thinking! "All credit goes to GOD" - All credit goes to HIM. That will dissolve any kind of head-weight, proudness, bad behaviour and helps to be good to everyone in this world!!

Just do your duty and do not expect the results!! Well, everything will be taken care...

I think the above is a great gem for life and that is enough!!

Junior level Software or BPO Workers/Employees from Madurai, Trichy, Coimbatore, Chennai, Tirunelveli are spoilt

I have been a software employee myself, as I started my career. I have in fact gone through this phase, but due to good culture and good wisdom, I tried not to take the weight to my head.

I recently met a youngster, who is just 3 years experienced in Software industry. Since he has some money in hand, his gestures and arrogance has increased a lot. Can I generalize this concept to majority of the folks starting up their career in the fields of IT and ITeS. But, one observation is this bad attitude comes to saturation and comes to normal level in a period of time. I think this is a matter of Maturity.

IT and ITeS employees who start their career, get lumpsum amount and it is handful, compared to the no-salary in college and the salary is much much higher in terms of what a non-IT person gets. The first salary is multiples of what a TNSTC driver or for that case a government employee gets in tamil nadu. Some of the IT folks do not give respect to the elders due to this fact and do whatever they want. IT folks might be getting much much more than his uncle was/is getting even today. But that is because of the IT and that does not mean you do not give respect to the elders.

I am not referring to everyone in IT or ITeS field, but this is a general trend at least in the initial career of some of the youngsters in India. And even if it is there, as they get mental maturity, they change for good!

If you are one of them, please correct yourself and this does not point to all the IT and ITeS employees, because I myself I am/was a IT person.

Suicide by youngsters since fed up of life - Madurai life - madurai wisdom

Recently I heard in a news that youngsters are taking bold decisions to die and go away from this life or earth, since they are fed up of this life.

In their past <20 years, what they would have seen in their life? There is only 10% of the life crossed and you realize what is there in life? We will have to be ready to face the world and win in the world. There is a definition for Suicide - It is a Bold decision taken by Cowards!

If the boldness was for good reasons, it would have been good. There are parents for you to take care. Your friends are there to care about. You have lot to see in the life - like love, success, marriage, kids, family, money, wealth, business, society etc., If it is love failure, do not worry. Either the same love will come back or something new will happen. Love is not just all of life! There is more to it.

If you want to do something, just focus on that thing and whatever challenges come in, just overcome it and prove it. then people will accept it.

Some words for thinking - Madurai Wisdom

நமது வாழ்க்கையில் ஒரு முறை போனால் திரும்ப பெற முடியாத மூன்று காரியங்கள் :

1. காலம்

2. வார்த்தைகள்

3. சந்தர்ப்பங்கள்

ஒரு மனிதனை அழிக்கும் மூன்று காரியங்கள் :

1. கோபம்

2. பெருமை

3. மன்னியாதிருத்தல்

இழக்க கூடாத மூன்று காரியங்கள் :

1. நம்பிக்கை

2. சமாதானம்

3. நேர்மை

மிகவும் அருமையான மூன்று காரியங்கள் :

1. அன்பு (Love)

2. குடும்பமும் நண்பர்களும் (Family & Friends)

3. தயவு (Kindness)

நமது வாழ்க்கையில் நிலைத்திராத மூன்று :

1. அதிர்ஷ்டம்

2. வெற்றி

3. கனவுகள்

ஒரு மனிதனை உருவாக்கும் மூன்று காரியங்கள் :

1. கடமை

2. உண்மை

3. கடின உழைப்பு

Time is precious - DO IT NOW - Madurai Wisdom

If you want to do something good, do it now. Never delay it.

There is never better good time for doing good things. Do not rely on stupid panchangams and nalla nerams. If you think I am wrong and if you believe strongly panchangams are good and proven - please email me or comment on this blog post.

I know people in Madurai (not all, but mostly) just believe about good times, bad times. Do not delay doing things. Things get delayed due to good times and bad times. Why not just do it today or any planned time?

Is other country people looking at all these good times and bad times? Aren't they living better and well, even though they don't see all those times? Let me know if you have any comment - and I would like to know what you all think!!!

Opportunities never come again, so never delay it for good times!! Do it now!!

No negative thoughts - only positive thoughts - Madurai wisdom

Keep only positive thoughts and get rid of negative thoughts then and there.
Do not live on negative thoughts anytime. As soon as you in take a negative thought or a saying from someone, immediately kick it out of your mind. If you allow negative thought to come and stay in your mind, then it automatically takes you down.

Why not just stop it when it comes to you first time and in a small scale. It is similar to the garbage at your place. When you get a garbage into your house, immediately think about getting rid of it and placing it in the trash. If you keep piling or even a small bit of it lying in your house then that will make you house stink and at the same time occupy your precious space.

If you are going towards your dream and going towards your achievement in life, then do not accept any negative thoughts.

Say - if you are saying you want to serve your society and you get constant negative thoughts, do not care for it. As you know Madurai is a conservative place and today if you say you want to quit your job and start your business of your own then you get all kinds of advice and placing hindrance to your thoughts about entrepreneurship. That is one main hurdle every youngster is facing today. Most of Madurai citizens live in joint family or atleast the decisions are made by more than one person in family - so it is a great hindrance for entrepreneurship and development in and of Madurai.

Characteristics of an entrepreneur - Madurai Entrepreneurship

(1) Inner Drive to Succeed

(2) Strong Belief in themselves

(3) Search for New Ideas and Innovation

(4) Openness to Change

(5) Competitive by Nature

(6) Highly Motivated and Energetic

(7) Accepting of Constructive Criticism and Rejection

Taking care of parents - Madurai Wisdom

As the parents become older day by day - they become like children.

I met very elderly parents of my manager today in a restaurant in our area.
They were very nice people. I remembered my parents immediately, after seeing them.
The grandpa was almost 83 years old and the grandma was around 70 years old.

They were delicate and calm. They were soft in nature and they enjoyed their food.

Overall, there came a thought. When it comes to taking care of your parents, I think it is like taking care of your children.

You get the same pleasure and joy of having children.

They are very sensitive, and I think we should take care of them and give them joy and help them enjoy their life in all possible ways.

It is a good thing to do in everyone's life.

Note: I am resuming back to blog after long time - please forgive me for any mistakes or flow of the article.