Scale for life - Madurai Wisdom

I always use this scale for life, whenever I have any problem or happiness.

Something to HOPE for;
Somebody to LOVE;
Something to do;

If you are sad, just see in the above list and you will find one or more of it will be missing. If that is the case, just fill it up.

At any point of time, it has worked for me.

In other hand, if we are able to just take both sadness and happiness with an equal and stable mind, then that is the real maturity.

Also, if you are able to give off all the success to GOD - as my Muslim friends say - "Yellaappugazhum iraivanukke". That is the perfect way of thinking! "All credit goes to GOD" - All credit goes to HIM. That will dissolve any kind of head-weight, proudness, bad behaviour and helps to be good to everyone in this world!!

Just do your duty and do not expect the results!! Well, everything will be taken care...

I think the above is a great gem for life and that is enough!!

Break your Inhibitions: Madurai Advice

If we break our inhibitions there are lot of things we can achieve in this world.

What are inhibitions?
"Social inhibition is what keeps humans from becoming involved in potentially objectionable actions and/or expressions in a social setting. The significance of this inhibiting behaviour varies greatly from person to person, and may be closely linked to a person's confidence. Many people use the effects of alcohol to free themselves from these inhibitions, providing more active experiences in society, however this can become over enhanced when too much alcohol is taken."

Inhibitions are usually interpreted in India, as being shy and reserved.
I used to be shy with lot of inhibitions in my school days. My mother would tell others that he is reserved and shy and so we cannot expect him to talk much.

Over my school days, I never tried to break my inhibitions. In my college days, I did break few of my inhibitions. In my career life, I started to break most of my inhibitions. Today, in my office, I felt like I have broken most of my inhibitions.

If you break your inhibitions, you can easily give speech in front of howmuchsoever audience crowd is there. You can socialize easily. You can market successfully. You can sell things easily. You can be successful in anything, because there is nothing to stop you.

Inhibitions can be related with fear too. So, we do not want to be fearful and be a loser in this world. Hence, BREAK THE INHIBITIONS and WIN THE WORLD!!